Oh, the old taboo topic of cunnilingus. So many men want to know, “How do you eat pussy?” Yet, just as many men are afraid to ask. It’s not exactly something they teach you how to do in school. So, how are you supposed to learn?
The female vagina is a mystery to a lot of men. There are even women out there who aren’t very educated about their body. It’s been a taboo subject for so long and it’s time for that to end. It’s time to be able to have open conversations about natural things, and that includes eating pussy.
Let’s start now. Let’s open up a dialogue and talk about pussy eating techniques, where things are located, how you can drive her wild, and lots more. By the time you’ve reached the end of this article, you’ll be ready to get out there and start eating pussy like a boss.
What’s the Difference Between the Clitoris and the G Spot?
It’s impossible to know how to eat pussy like a pro if you don’t know what the G Spot and clitoris are or where they are located.
Many people think that the G Spot and the clitoris are the same thing. That’s not exactly true. They are more like good friends who are attached at the hip. Despite that closeness, here are some of the key differences between them.
Clitoris
- The clitoris is located on the outside of the vagina.
- Your tongue is the best way to pleasure the clitoris.
- The clitoris is 9 to 11 centimeters long.
- While the clitoris has a nub of highly sensitive nerve endings located just beneath the hood of the clitoral hood, the entire clitoris should be given attention. This is something a lot of men don’t know. The clitoris is not a “button” alone. It is more like a shaft with a head. Stroking that shaft with your tongue is just as important as her stroking your shaft with her tongue.
G Spot
- The G Spot is located on the inside of the vagina.
- Your fingers are the best way to pleasure her G Spot.
- The G Spot is 2 to 3 centimeters long.
- When you place your fingers inside of her, you’ll want to move upwards until you feel somewhat of a valley with slight ridges. Be forewarned, though. She needs to be fully aroused before you try to access the G Spot. If she’s not, it won’t feel pleasurable to her and you won’t be able to find it. This is the spot you want to hit when you are just about to bring her home, not the second you begin the journey.
Do Women Enjoy Receiving Oral?
The simple answer is YES! Women love receiving oral. The ones who don’t are likely just self-conscious about it because there are so many stereotypes and preconceived notions about the female anatomy.
It doesn’t smell good. It tastes funny. It’s a lot of work to navigate. It’s easier for women to give oral to men. These are just some of the lines we have all heard spewed.
The truth is, not only does oral sex feel good for women, it’s good for them, too. It helps relieve anxiety and depression. It enhances their mood. It releases endorphins. It’s all around really good for a woman’s health.
Do Men Enjoy Eating Pussy?
You have probably heard some of your buddies say, “I love eating pussy!” Perhaps you’ve said it yourself. Not all men feel that way, though.
For most men, it’s not that they don’t enjoy eating pussy, it’s just that they are intimidated by it. They’re not sure where things are or if they’re doing it right. That self-consciousness can greatly inhibit any joy that might come from it. That’s why reading articles like this can help you increase your confidence and allow you to give the woman in your life the gift of better mental health. Besides, it’s just a lot of fun.
3 Common Myths About Eating Out Pussy
- They smell like fish.
Unless she has an infection or bad hygiene, then that’s just simply not true. The way she smells is exactly how a pussy should smell. - She has to be shaved.
Men who believe this obviously don’t know how to eat out pussy. It’s all about the shaft. You don’t have to spend all of your time where the pubic hair line hits the bulbous point of the clitoris. The entire pussy needs love and the entire pussy is not covered with hair. - It will taste bad.
Women have a distinctive taste. Not all women taste alike. Just like the smell myth, unless she has bad hygiene or an infection, there should be nothing wrong with the taste.
How to Talk to Your Partner About the Best Way to Eat Pussy
Maybe your woman is completely uninhibited. “Babe, I’m going to show you how to eat pussy good.”
Most men are not so lucky.
This is because far too many women are self-conscious about their pussy because of the ridiculous myths we mentioned before. This is why it’s so important to talk to your partner and find out what she wants. You can read a million articles about how to eat pussy, but each woman is different and you must find out exactly what it is that gets her off.
If she is self-conscious about it, make her feel comfortable. You can do this by approaching the subject from a place of excitement. Tell her how much you want to make her feel good. Tell her that turning her on will turn you on. If she feels like you are into it, she is much more likely to let her guard down and allow her inhibitions to take a back seat to pleasure.
3 Ways to Help Her if She’s Self-Conscious
- Talk to her.
Having an open dialogue is the best way to help her feel comfortable. Let her know that you want her to tell you what she likes. Let her know you want to make her feel good. - Food for thought.
Some women are self-conscious because they are worried they are going to smell bad or taste funny. Introducing food can be a good way to mask any smell or taste concerns she has. Besides, it can be a lot of fun to introduce food in the bedroom. - Get aroused yourself.
She is going to feel far less inhibited if she sees that her man is just as into it as she is. By nature, many women are people pleasers. Right or wrong, it’s just how they operate. They are nurturing by nature, so knowing that you are deriving pleasure from it, will make it far easier for her to find pleasure in it, as well.
5 Pussy Eating Tips to Drive Her Wild
- Lick her nipples.
The nipples are an erogenous zone, but that doesn’t mean you should camp out there, of course. Kiss the entire breast slowly and sensually, before you make your way to her nipples. Once you’re there, be sure you lick them with just the tip of your tongue at first. Then, it’s a good move to suckle them a bit. Be gentle, unless she indicates otherwise that she wants you to nibble at them. - Use your fingers.
Once you have made your way to her nipples, this is a good time to get your fingers involved, as well. As you are kissing them, begin playing with her pussy. Always gently at first. You want to make sure she’s aroused before you put your fingers inside of her. If she’s not wet, it’s not going to feel very good.
This is when it’s a good time to start thinking about the G Spot. Now that you have her aroused, start climbing the hill upward while you are inside of her. From there, you will be able to access her clitoris from behind. How much pressure you apply really depends on what she likes. - Service her entire pussy, not just the clitoris or G Spot.
The best pussy eating does not begin with the pussy. Be sure to kiss her outer thighs. This is another erogenous zone. Kiss them gently, using both your lips and your tongue, before you move in toward her pussy.
Once you reach her pussy, be sure to kiss her entire clitoris, not just the gathering of nerves at the top. Don’t act like you’re chowing down on your favorite meal, either. She doesn’t want to feel like the main attraction at a buffet. Instead, sensually lick her in long waves before moving in a circular motion toward the top of the clitoris. - Enjoy it.
If you’re not into it, then how is she supposed to be into it? No woman wants to feel like you are bored or doing it as a favor to her. Find arousal in the act of making her aroused. Her pleasure is in your hands (and tongue) and that is something to find a great deal of enjoyment in. - Ask her what she likes.
Each woman is different. Some like a very gentle lover who is sensual and delicate. Other women like a little bit of nibbling and more of a hard rubbing action. Unless you ask her what she likes, you will have no idea what the best way is to make her cum.
What to Do if You Don’t Like the Taste
Okay. You now know how to lick pussy but you don’t like the taste. Consider bringing food into the bedroom. Whipped cream is one of the best foods you can introduce. It has a sweet, light taste and won’t be too much in your stomach. Plus, it’s safe for her.
Can STDs Be Transmitted Through Oral
Yes. However, if you have an open dialogue with your partner, then you should be able to discuss the possibility of STDs beforehand.
Sorry guys, but women tend to be far more vigilant about taking care of themselves. Most women see a gynecologist once a year for a pap smear. That visit normally includes STD testing. This means that most women are very knowledgeable about their health and will be able to tell you if there is anything you need to worry about.
Of course there is always the risk, though. If you are enjoying a fling or a one night stand, then it’s possible she’s been with someone recently who is infected and she doesn’t know it yet. Just like any other form of sex, you have to use your head just as much as your penis, and make smart decisions.
Takeaway
Now that you know how to properly eat pussy, get out there and do it. Don’t be afraid or nervous or self-conscious. After all, eating her out is good for her health. It will be good for yours, too, when you discover how good you can make her feel with all of this new knowledge you now have at your disposal. Bon appetit!
